Socialization of youth

When my hubby and I discuss having children it is in a casual, someday, sort of way. We never commit to a time line or actually planning the birth of our child. I believe that this in part has to do with how we believe a child should be raised. Now I am not saying I am right, ok let me quit lying of course I think I am right, but this is just my theory based on evidence and education. There is no particular reason I am writing this blog. There is no babies in my immediate future. I have just come across many adult who were obviously not taught the proper home training. So I am going to tell you how to raise a productive member of society and not an asshole.
To start you MUST tell your children "no". It is important that they learn that they can not have everything they want. Now some parents may think that they are giving their children the ideal childhood by spoiling them with little plastic men and cake. But the truth is that the parents are only committing a major injustice on the children. They are socializing them to believe that they can have whatever they want without working for it. They then unleash this spoiled Veroca Salt out on to the world where other people are forced to put up with their temper tantrums every time they don't get exactly what they want. The children then are dumb founded that everyone is not appeasing them and kissing their ass. These children are incapable of having a true adult life because most times they are unable to take responsibility for their own actions.
every time a serial killer is talked about in the news they say that he had a hard childhood. You know why spoiled children are never serial killers because they can't get away with the first murder! Now I am not condoning murder, but if your going to do it atleast take down as many people as possible. You will get the needle if you kill one person so why not kill twenty and make it worth your while. Anyway, they only kill one person and they confess just about every time. Why? Because Mommy and Daddy will fix it. In their spoiled minds they believe that they are above the laws that the rest of us have to follow. Their parents have taught them that they are extremely "special" and that they can say and do whatever they want.
So you see parents by buying your children the latest melon shaped Pikoshoo crapped out of Japan you are not making them happy, you are making them crazy. Then it is the rest of society who falls victim to your child. If they aren't killing us at the very least they are screaming and ruining our movie. So stop over indulging them and get a back bone. The best childhoods are ones forged in love and the word NO.